I am so excited for your upcoming session! I just wanted to go over a few details so that you have a better idea of what to expect and how to prepare.
The most important thing- and I can’t stress this enough- is to relax and have fun! Try not to stress about the camera being pointed at you.
You can expect that for the first 10 to 20 minutes, you’ll feel totally awkward. This is completely normal, and it happens to everyone, so don’t worry about it. I promise it will go away and you’ll be able to relax and enjoy this time together. Embrace the awkward, go with it!
My #1 rule is: DON’T LOOK AT THE CAMERA. This is also probably the most difficult thing to do! We’re conditioned from an early age to look and smile when someone is taking our picture. Unless I ask you to, just try to ignore the camera, and pay attention to each other. It can feel awkward at first, trying to ignore the urge to do that- but I promise it gets easier! We’ll be moving around a lot and I’ll help you if you need it!
My #2 rule is: BE YOURSELF. Sounds easy enough, right? You don’t need to put on a show for me. If you’re goofy and awkward, be goofy and awkward! If you’re more of the strong silent type, go with it! It’s all good!
My #3 (and most important) rule is: TRUST ME. I absolutely love capturing these images, and I like to think I’m pretty good at it. A lot of the time, I see things in a completely different way- and I love to experiment! You might question some of my ideas (like if I’m like “Oh wow! That’s an awesome pile of dead sticks right there! Let’s use it for a background”) but trust me- it usually turns out amazing!
I will direct you throughout the session, provide ideas, talk to you, answer any questions you might have, and just have a great time hanging out with you. :)
You don’t need to bring anything with you. I like to catch in-between moments while we’re walking around, and if you’re carrying things this can be an issue.
For clothing, I suggest wearing outfits that are seasonally and location appropriate. Layers are always nice and allow quick changes to looks. Pay attention to how the clothing fits- it should be comfortable, not too loose or too tight. Colors that coordinate but don’t match are best. Darker colors and neutral colors photograph best, but don’t be afraid to bring in a pop of color, floral print, plaid, or something like that. I would rather have you wear something that you LOVE than worry about looking perfect. The only exception to that is logos- try not to wear clothing items that have logos because they can be distracting.
Outfit suggestion for guys: a dark, neutral colored button up shirt, long pants, and some leather shoes or boots. (Guys should stay away from shorts/sandals.)
Outfit suggestion for girls: a long, flowy dress that’ll allow the sun to peek through the skirt, and boots or strappy shoes. Also, I highly recommend staying away from sleeveless tops/dresses if you don’t like the way your arms look. :)
Your outfits can really impact your photos, so put some thought into what you’re going to wear. If you need help or suggestions, I’d be happy to help you!
If you normally wear glasses, wear them. If you’re a guy, don’t shave right before the session (to avoid redness and spots).
If you have any questions or need help with anything, just let me know! I’m looking forward to seeing you at the session!
Here are 6 tips to help you prepare for the session:
- SHARE IT ALL WITH ME. Honesty is mandatory. Be yourselves. I can only capture your true dynamic if you allow me into your space. Remember how you interact when you’re alone, and don’t hide it. Embrace both the goofy laughter and the quiet moments. I will, of course, guide you through all this as we shoot.
- DON’T HOLD BACK. Just be you! This seems obvious, but sometimes it’s tough to really commit to it. I want your dynamic to set the tone and mood of the shoot, not what you think a session should look like. Are you goofballs? Are you introverted? I want to experience all those little moments you might otherwise consider the “outtakes”. Don’t act like you think you should, I want to capture you as you are. The truest emotion is in the outtakes!
- DRESS LIKE YOURSELF. Dress comfortably, don’t feel like you need to “dress up” because it’s an occasion. Wear something you feel confident and comfortable in. Whether that’s ripped up jeans or a flowing dress, you do you!
- FORGET THE “PHOTOSHOOT” PART. You’re not there for me. I’m there for you: to document you. The objective isn’t just to take pretty pictures. It’s to capture this stage in your life, while spending time together. It’s very likely that the last time you got your picture taken “professionally” was for a high school photo or for super awkward portraits. I promise you, it will be nothing like that. So forget the photos, and focus on enjoying the evening!
- EMBRACE THE SPONTANEOUS ELEMENTS. And I don’t just mean the weather. I want you to embrace the rocks, the dirt, the paths less traveled, the wind messing up your hair, and all the other spontaneous and “imperfect” elements. I want to keep it natural and honest, so just let go!
- HAVE FUN. I mean like, let all the stress and responsibility of life go away for a while and just embrace the moment! This should be a time to enjoy each other without worry. Laugh, hold hands, explore, and forget about work!
BONUS TIP: Visit my Pinterest boards for inspiration, tips on how to apply makeup for photos, hair ideas, outfits, and more. Pinterest.com/lumephoto