How to DIY Hair & Makeup for Your Elopement (and Look Amazing)
If you’re planning to exchange vows in a remote, wild place, there’s a good chance professional hair and makeup stylists won’t be an option. And you know what? That’s okay. You don’t need a professional to feel beautiful or comfortable on your wedding day—you just need a simple plan, some practice, and a few reliable techniques that’ll hold up to whatever nature has planned.
Doing your own wedding hair and makeup might feel intimidating (maybe even a little scary), but it’s totally doable. And let’s be real—you’re outdoors. The wind, rain, or humidity probably isn’t going to cooperate with your dream of a perfect hairstyle anyway. Instead of stressing about getting it just right, it’s easier (and way less stressful) to accept that nature might have its own plans for your hair. A little messy can still be beautiful—and probably feels more like you anyway.
A good tip is to practice ahead of time and choose simple, natural styles that don’t need tons of touch-ups. Don’t try something completely new on your wedding day—stick with techniques you’ve tested beforehand (trust me on this one). And pack an emergency kit with basics like extra bobby pins, setting spray, blotting paper, and lip balm, just in case.
Bottom line: doing your own styling can actually be pretty empowering, and it’s one more way to keep your wedding day relaxed, personal, and focused on what’s really important—getting married in an incredible place, exactly how you want to.
DIY Elopement Hair: Simple, Beautiful, and Built for the Outdoors
When it comes to doing your own hair for your elopement, the key is to embrace simplicity and flexibility. You’re not in a climate-controlled salon—you’re in the wild, where the wind, humidity, or even a light drizzle might make their own creative contributions to your style. Instead of fighting the elements, go with styles that work with nature, not against it.
The best elopement hairstyles are the ones that don’t need constant fixing or a million bobby pins to stay in place. Think soft, romantic, effortless—styles that move naturally and still look amazing whether you’re exchanging vows on a mountaintop, by the lake, or deep in the forest. Bonus points if your hair still looks great when the wind picks up or you throw on a beanie for warmth. Here are my top tips:
- Embrace Your Natural Texture – Work with your hair’s natural tendencies rather than against them. This minimizes stress and increases durability.
- Braids & Clips for Stability – These styles look effortless while keeping hair under control in windy conditions.
- Soft Waves for Versatility – Beachy waves or loose curls offer movement without looking overly styled.
- Wind-Adaptability – Wind adds magic to wedding photos, and choosing styles that move well (rather than fighting to keep everything perfectly in place) will create a more natural, timeless look.
- Waterproof Products – If there’s rain in the forecast, use humidity-resistant sprays and lightweight styling products that won’t turn stiff or sticky.
The good news? You don’t need to be a hairstyling pro to pull off a beautiful elopement look. Whether you’re working with short, long, or in-between hair, these three DIY hairstyle ideas will keep you feeling confident, comfortable, and ready for whatever adventure your wedding day brings.
1. The Textured Low Bun
A low, messy bun is one of the best elopement hairstyles because it’s secure, stylish, and won’t budge in the wind. It works on most hair types and can be easily dressed up with a hairpin, floral accent, or a delicate hair vine. To DIY it:
- Use texturizing spray or dry shampoo to give your hair grip.
- Gather your hair into a low ponytail, twist it loosely, and secure it into a bun with pins or a small elastic.
- Pull out a few face-framing pieces for that effortless, undone look.
- Set with a flexible-hold hairspray—strong enough to last but not so stiff that it looks unnatural.
- Textured Low Bun Tutorial Video
2. Loose Waves or Curls
If you love a more natural, carefree look, soft waves or curls are a great option. Plus, they look amazing even if they get a little tousled by the wind. To make them last:
- Start with a heat protectant and curl your hair with a curling iron or wand.
- Let curls cool before brushing them out for softer waves.
- Use a sea salt spray or texturizing spray to add volume and grit so they don’t fall flat too quickly.
- If you’re in a humid or rainy area, go with a braided wave technique—braid damp hair the night before and wake up to effortless waves.
- Loose Waves – Long Hair Tutorial
- Loose Waves – Medium Hair Tutorial
3. Half-Up, Half-Down
If you want the best of both worlds—some hair down, but still secured away from your face—this style is easy, elegant, and works on any hair length. It’s also a great way to show off natural texture. To do it:
- Take two sections from the front and twist them loosely.
- Pin them back at the crown of your head, overlapping them for a natural, seamless look, or secure with a clear plastic band.
- You can then pull the hair through the loop for an elegant twist.
- If you have shorter hair, use small claw clips or bobby pins to keep everything in place.
- Lightly curl the remaining hair for an extra soft, romantic feel.
- Half-Up Half-Down Tutorial
Bridal Hair Accessories: Traditional & Non-Traditional Options
Accessories can elevate your wedding hairstyle and add personality to your look. Whether you lean towards classic elegance or something more unique, here are some ideas:
Traditional Bridal Hair Accessories
- Veil – A timeless choice that adds softness and drama to your look.
- Floral Pins – Fresh or silk flowers can add a romantic, nature-inspired touch.
- Spray Pins & Pearls – Delicate additions that provide subtle sparkle and elegance.
- Tiara – Perfect for a regal, fairytale-inspired aesthetic.
Non-Traditional Bridal Hair Accessories
- Crystal Crowns – A mystical, bohemian twist on the traditional tiara.
- Hats – Wide-brimmed hats or fedoras can bring an adventurous, modern flair.
- Hair Vines & Chains – These can be woven into braids or curls for an ethereal, whimsical effect.
- Feathers or Shell Clips – Ideal for beach or forest elopements, adding a natural, earthy feel.
When choosing an accessory, consider how it interacts with your hairstyle and the environment. Wind and rain can impact how a veil flows or how well certain pieces stay in place. Secure everything with sturdy pins and do a test run to ensure comfort and durability.
Trial Run: The Key to Confidence
A trial run is non-negotiable if you want to feel confident in your DIY elopement hairstyle. The last thing you want on your wedding day is to discover that your carefully planned look falls apart in the wind or feels uncomfortable five minutes in. Testing your chosen style ahead of time will save you stress and help you make any necessary adjustments before the big day.
Start by styling your hair just as you would for your elopement—use the same products, tools, and techniques. Then, take photos from multiple angles and in different lighting to see how it looks on camera. A hairstyle that seems perfect in the bathroom mirror might look totally different in natural light or from the side and back. If possible, wear it for at least a few hours to see how it holds up over time.
If you’re planning to hike, explore, or deal with unpredictable weather, take your hairstyle for a test run under similar conditions. Walk around outside, wear a backpack, or even try throwing on a hat or veil to make sure everything stays secure. If you notice any weak spots—pieces falling out, too much frizz, or discomfort—make adjustments, whether that’s using a stronger-hold hairspray, adding extra pins, or choosing a slightly different style that’s more adventure-proof.
This extra step might take a little time, but it’s worth it. A trial run ensures that when your wedding day arrives, you’ll know your hairstyle works, looks great, and—most importantly—lets you focus on celebrating without worrying about your hair coming undone.
Wedding Makeup: Enhancing Without Overdoing It
When it comes to elopement makeup, less can be more—but definition is key. Natural light and photography tend to wash out subtle tones, so adding a little extra depth and color helps keep you from looking flat or faded in your photos. The goal? Enhance your features while still feeling like yourself.
Some people prefer a natural, barely-there glow, while others love a bold, dramatic look—both can photograph beautifully. The key is choosing products and techniques that work with your skin type, lighting conditions, and personal style.
Prepping Your Skin: The Foundation for a Long-Lasting Look
Great makeup starts with great skin. A well-prepped face helps your makeup last all day and look fresh in any weather.
- Hydrate & Moisturize – Smooth, well-moisturized skin creates the perfect base for foundation. Even if your skin is oily, a lightweight moisturizer keeps makeup from clinging to dry patches.
- SPF Protection – If you’re eloping outdoors, opt for a moisturizer or primer with SPF to protect your skin from sun exposure. Just be careful with flash photography—some sunscreens cause a white cast in photos.
- Primer for Longevity – A lightweight primer helps your makeup stay put through wind, heat, or happy tears.
Natural vs. Dramatic Makeup: Finding Your Ideal Look
For a Soft, Natural Look (Effortless & Glowing)
If you want to look fresh, glowing, and effortless, go for soft, blended tones and lightweight formulas that enhance rather than overpower.
✔ Lightweight, Buildable Foundation – Heavy foundation can look unnatural in outdoor light. Instead, opt for a breathable formula. Dr. Jart+ Premium BB Tinted Moisturizer is a great all-in-one option that evens skin tone while feeling weightless, and I love MISSHA M. BB Cream.
✔ Defined Brows – Lightly filling in your brows adds structure to your face without making them look overdone.
✔ Neutral Eye Makeup – Stick to warm browns, taupes, or soft pinks for a subtle, natural eye look. Blend well to keep it soft and airy.
✔ Waterproof Mascara – A must for emotional moments (and unpredictable weather). My all-time favorite is Falsies by Maybelline – it’s the BEST!
✔ Blush & Bronzer for Dimension – A little warmth on your cheeks keeps you from looking washed out in photos.
✔ Soft Lip Color – A tinted balm, gloss, or soft lipstick in a pink, peach, or nude shade is flattering, low-maintenance, and easy to reapply throughout the day.
Perfect for: Boho, nature-inspired, or casual elopements where you want to look radiant but effortless.
For a More Defined, Dramatic Look (Bold & Photo-Ready)
If you love a more sculpted, polished appearance, go for richer tones and a bit more definition to create a striking look in your wedding photos.
✔ Full-Coverage or Satin-Finish Foundation – A foundation with slightly more coverage helps even out skin tone and hold up throughout the day. If you’re worried about a heavy feel, mix a drop of moisturizer with your foundation for a softer effect.
✔ Bold Brows – Defined, shaped brows enhance facial expressions and create structure in portraits. If you naturally have lighter brows, use a brow gel or pencil to subtly darken them.
✔ Smoky or Defined Eyes – A soft, blended smoky eye using warm browns, taupes, or a slight shimmer adds drama without feeling overdone. Winged liner or a subtle cat-eye effect can give your eyes extra pop.
✔ Stronger Blush & Bronzer Contour – A little extra sculpting and warmth makes a big difference in photos, especially in softer natural light.
✔ Bold Lip Color – A classic red, deep berry, or defined nude adds drama and contrast. A matte or satin formula works best for long-lasting wear.
Perfect for: Moody, editorial, or classic elopements where you want your features to stand out and make a statement.
Weather-Proofing Your Look
- Use a long-lasting setting spray to lock in wedding makeup. I love All Nighter Waterproof Makeup Setting Spray from Urban Decay.
- If you’re in a dry climate, focus on extra hydration to avoid patchy makeup.
- In humid or wet conditions, avoid heavy powders and opt for cream-based products that blend seamlessly.
How Wedding Hair & Makeup Impact Photography
Your hair and makeup choices don’t just affect how you look in person—they shape the overall feel of your wedding photos. Makeup for photography is different from everyday makeup because natural light and cameras tend to wash out subtle colors. I recommend applying a bit more than you’re used to—especially with foundation, blush, and eye makeup—to ensure your features stand out on camera. That said, when in doubt, wear what feels comfortable. If you don’t feel like yourself, it will show in your photos.
False lashes can be stunning, adding definition to your eyes, but they need to be applied with precision. If they shift or start to lift at the edges, it can be distracting in photos—so if you’re not confident in applying them, consider skipping them or opting for individual lashes for a softer, more natural look.
When it comes to hair, movement is everything. Flowing styles that catch the wind add emotion and a free-spirited, natural vibe that looks incredible in outdoor settings. More structured styles, like sleek buns or polished waves, create a timeless, elegant feel—but keep in mind that very stiff styles may look less organic in adventurous locations. Whatever you choose, aim for a style that feels effortless and stays put, so you can focus on the moment instead of fussing with your hair.
Trust Yourself
Your elopement is about celebrating love, connection, and the adventure you’re about to embark on. Doing your own wedding hair and makeup can be a meaningful part of that journey—a quiet, reflective moment before stepping into a day filled with joy. Embrace the process, trust yourself, and remember that the most important thing is how you feel. When you feel confident, that radiates in every photo, every moment, and every memory you create.
Hi I’m Andrea.
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