What If It Rains On My Wedding Day?
Sometimes it rains. And sometimes Mother Nature decides to water the earth on the same day as your wedding. What to do about that? Well, there isn’t any way we can change the weather, so I recommend being prepared and just going with the flow. It’s still your wedding day and a day worthy of embracing and celebrating- no matter what!
Rain is always a possibility if you’re going to be outside
So, you’ve been daydreaming about your wedding day, picturing rays of golden sunshine bathing the scene in warmth and beauty. That’s fantastic! But here’s a thought: what if the weather decides to take a detour from your sunny fantasy?
Well, hold onto your umbrella, because here’s the silver lining: rain or shine, it’s still YOUR big day! Imagine it: a day filled to the brim with love, laughter, and a touch of magic, regardless of whether the sun is playing hide-and-seek behind the clouds or shining bright above.
You see, the weather might have its own plans, but nothing can dampen the spirit of your celebration. It’s a day woven with threads of joy and happiness, where every moment is a treasure to be cherished, raindrops and all.
So, take a deep breath, let go of any worries about the weather, and embrace the beauty of the unexpected. After all, it’s these unplanned moments that often make the best memories!
Rain doesn’t mean your photos are ruined
THE LIGHTING:
First let’s talk about lighting. When those clouds gather and the sky turns a shade of gray, something truly enchanting happens. It’s like nature’s own softbox, casting a gentle, diffused light that turns every moment into a work of art. And guess what? Your photographer is going to be over the moon! Why? Because this kind of lighting? It’s a photographer’s dream. Seriously, it’s like hitting the jackpot! This soft, even light? It’s like nature’s Photoshop, smoothing out any lines or wrinkles and giving you that radiant, youthful glow. So, who needs a filter when you’ve got Mother Nature on your side?
THE MOOD:
Rainy days aren’t just about dodging drops and seeking shelter. Oh no, they’re about embracing the atmosphere, diving headfirst into the magic that fills the air. Picture this: dark, brooding clouds painting the sky, adding depth and drama to your surroundings. It’s like stepping into a fairytale, where every moment is imbued with a sense of mystery and wonder. And you know what? Your photos are going to be absolutely epic! Because when it comes to capturing mood and atmosphere, nothing beats a rainy day.
MAGICAL SURPRISES:
And here’s the cherry on top: magical surprises! So, it’s raining, right? But guess what sometimes comes along with rain? Rainbow alert! That’s right, when those raindrops start to dance, sometimes they bring along a dazzling display of color. It’s like nature’s way of saying, “Hey, don’t forget to look up and smile!” So, if you’re lucky enough to catch a glimpse of that rainbow, consider it a little gift from the universe, adding an extra sprinkle of magic to your already unforgettable day.
So what’s the plan if it rains?
Being prepared is key if it rains on your wedding day. First, if you’re really anxious and worried about if it rains, I recommend asking yourself why you’re feeling this way. Is it because you don’t like the idea of getting wet and your hair/makeup getting drenched? Is it because you are worried your photos won’t turn out as good? Think about what’s causing you anxiety and then go from there to figure out a plan.
Here are some options for if it’s raining on your day:
Go with the flow (pun intended)
…and don’t make any changes to your day-of plans. If it rains, it rains! Sometimes this option can result in really amazing photos, and a memorable experience for the brave! I always bring along a bunch of clear umbrellas as well as several heavy-duty clear ponchos to stay dry (and they also look good in photos.)
Move indoors
If you aren’t up for a wet wedding adventure you can always have a backup plan to move your ceremony indoors. You can book an Airbnb with a nice space you like for a backup plan, like a big stone fireplace or great room. Some campgrounds have yurts that would make a unique ceremony spot that’s sheltered. Other ideas for small weddings are local restaurants, breweries, or wineries that have a suitable space. You should call ahead and check to see what the policy is for having a small elopement there. Explain the rain situation and they might even throw in some extras for you!
Find (or bring your own) shelter
You can try moving your ceremony to a covered location such as a pavilion or gazebo if there’s one nearby. Or you can purchase a pop-up canopy tent or igloo and have your very own dry ceremony space anywhere.
Change your date
With my clients, I typically have the day before and after a chosen wedding date available. So if they’re open to it and want/need to switch days because of the weather, that’s an option!
Adopting a Scottish perspective.
I’ve traveled to Scotland several times. It’s my favorite place besides home and the Keweenaw Peninsula. Just to put things into perspective, it rains A LOT in Scotland. Pretty much every single day. But it’s amazingly gorgeous there, and the people who live there have learned to adapt. They go about their days, walk their dogs, go out and exercise, and even have weddings in the rain all the time! Rain doesn’t stop anyone from living life, enjoying the outdoors, or having a great time.
Staying Dry
If you don’t want to get all wet, you’ll need to prepare ahead. Purchase some clear plastic or black umbrellas. Bring raincoats. A nice raincoat is priceless when it’s raining! And/or get some clear ponchos. You can stay dry and still be stylish for your wedding photos. I always have some of these on hand in case they’re needed.
- One big clear umbrella to share
- Single-person clear umbrellas
- Clear ponchos
- Women’s Rain Jackets
- Men’s Rain Jackets
Waterproof boots or shoes will keep your feet nice and dry.
Don’t stress too much over things you can’t control
If it’s going to rain, it’s going to rain. But just because the forecast mentions a chance of rain doesn’t necessarily mean it’s going to be a constant downpour, or heavy rain the entire day. A sprinkle or light rain is easy to deal with. A heavy shower or two can usually be waited out. And if it does turn out to be a significant amount of rain all day, embrace it! The rain is symbolic of washing away negativity and the past, and nurturing new beginnings- a perfect wedding day gift from Mother Nature.
Check out thESE incredible weddingS in the rain!
I absolutely love these brave couples who said “to heck with it” when it downpoured on their wedding day! I know this isn’t everyone’s cup of tea, but I hope it opens you up to possibilities. Rain happens, and sometimes it’s best to just go with the flow (pun intended!)
So, what if it rains on your wedding day? Embrace it! Because raindrops don’t dampen spirits, they amplify them. They transform ordinary moments into extraordinary memories, weaving a tale of love, laughter, and unexpected magic. So, whether the sun graces you with its golden rays or raindrops dance on your skin, remember this: your wedding day is a celebration of love in all its forms, and nothing, not even a little rain, can dim its radiance. So, let the weather do its thing, and you do yours—smile, laugh, and dance in the rain, because this day? It’s yours, rain or shine.
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Hi! I’m Andrea!
Photographer, storyteller, nature lover
Lume Photography is a creative Michigan elopement photographer & planner based in the Upper Peninsula. Behind the camera, you’ll find me (Andrea) photographer, forager, paranormal enthusiast. My passion is helping free-spirited couples craft their dream wedding in nature, and documenting the moments, emotions, and story in amazing photos. READ MORE ABOUT ME