What If It Rains On My Wedding Day?

Sometimes it rains. And sometimes Mother Nature decides to water the earth on the same day as your wedding. What to do about that? Well, there isn’t any way we can change the weather, so I recommend being prepared and just going with the flow. It’s still your wedding day and a day worthy of embracing and celebrating- no matter what!

Rain is always a possibility if you’re going to be outside

So, you’ve been daydreaming about your wedding day, picturing rays of golden sunshine bathing the scene in warmth and beauty. That’s fantastic! But here’s a thought: what if the weather decides to take a detour from your sunny fantasy?

Well, hold onto your umbrella, because here’s the silver lining: rain or shine, it’s still YOUR big day! Imagine it: a day filled to the brim with love, laughter, and a touch of magic, regardless of whether the sun is playing hide-and-seek behind the clouds or shining bright above.

You see, the weather might have its own plans, but nothing can dampen the spirit of your celebration. It’s a day woven with threads of joy and happiness, where every moment is a treasure to be cherished, raindrops and all.

So, take a deep breath, let go of any worries about the weather, and embrace the beauty of the unexpected. After all, it’s these unplanned moments that often make the best memories!

Rain doesn’t mean your photos are ruined

So what’s the plan if it rains?

Being prepared is key if it rains on your wedding day. First, if you’re really anxious and worried about if it rains, I recommend asking yourself why you’re feeling this way. Is it because you don’t like the idea of getting wet and your hair/makeup getting drenched? Is it because you are worried your photos won’t turn out as good? Think about what’s causing you anxiety and then go from there to figure out a plan.

Here are some options for if it’s raining on your day:

Go with the flow (pun intended)

…and don’t make any changes to your day-of plans. If it rains, it rains! Sometimes this option can result in really amazing photos, and a memorable experience for the brave! I always bring along a bunch of clear umbrellas as well as several heavy-duty clear ponchos to stay dry (and they also look good in photos.)

Move indoors

If you aren’t up for a wet wedding adventure you can always have a backup plan to move your ceremony indoors. You can book an Airbnb with a nice space you like for a backup plan, like a big stone fireplace or great room. Some campgrounds have yurts that would make a unique ceremony spot that’s sheltered. Other ideas for small weddings are local restaurants, breweries, or wineries that have a suitable space. You should call ahead and check to see what the policy is for having a small elopement there. Explain the rain situation and they might even throw in some extras for you!

Find (or bring your own) shelter

You can try moving your ceremony to a covered location such as a pavilion or gazebo if there’s one nearby. Or you can purchase a pop-up canopy tent or igloo and have your very own dry ceremony space anywhere.

Change your date

With my clients, I typically have the day before and after a chosen wedding date available. So if they’re open to it and want/need to switch days because of the weather, that’s an option!

Staying Dry

If you don’t want to get all wet, you’ll need to prepare ahead. Purchase some clear plastic or black umbrellas. Bring raincoats. A nice raincoat is priceless when it’s raining! And/or get some clear ponchos. You can stay dry and still be stylish for your wedding photos. I always have some of these on hand in case they’re needed.

• One big clear umbrella to share
• Single-person clear umbrellas
• Clear ponchos
• Women’s Rain Jackets
• Men’s Rain Jackets

Waterproof boots or shoes will keep your feet nice and dry.

Don’t stress too much over things you can’t control

If it’s going to rain, it’s going to rain. But just because the forecast mentions a chance of rain doesn’t necessarily mean it’s going to be a constant downpour, or heavy rain the entire day. A sprinkle or light rain is easy to deal with. A heavy shower or two can usually be waited out. And if it does turn out to be a significant amount of rain all day, embrace it! The rain is symbolic of washing away negativity and the past, and nurturing new beginnings- a perfect wedding day gift from Mother Nature.

Check out thESE incredible weddingS in the rain!

I absolutely love these brave couples who said “to heck with it” when it downpoured on their wedding day! I know this isn’t everyone’s cup of tea, but I hope it opens you up to possibilities. Rain happens, and sometimes it’s best to just go with the flow (pun intended!)

So, what if it rains on your wedding day? Embrace it! Because raindrops don’t dampen spirits, they amplify them. They transform ordinary moments into extraordinary memories, weaving a tale of love, laughter, and unexpected magic. So, whether the sun graces you with its golden rays or raindrops dance on your skin, remember this: your wedding day is a celebration of love in all its forms, and nothing, not even a little rain, can dim its radiance. So, let the weather do its thing, and you do yours—smile, laugh, and dance in the rain, because this day? It’s yours, rain or shine.